Fangirl/Multifandom Blog|Sherlock|Lord of the Rings|Obi-Wan Kenobi|Ewan McGregor|Mystrade shipper.
being friendly with a boy you aren’t romantically/physically attracted to and him developing feelings for you isn’t your fault, nor does it mean you were “leading him on”. you are under no obligation to date him.
You’re not shallow
You’re not inconsiderateThere is nothing wrong with you for not wanting to date someone you’re not attracted to.
It’s kiiiinda horrifying how hard this is to absorb
Why is it always “Dumbledore is my fave” or “Dumbledore is abusive” and never “Dumbledore is so fucking afraid of letting another dark wizard come to power that he channels his own darkness into training a human weapon from childhood to fight the darkness that he knows he can’t while pretending to be the wise wizard mentor that he wishes he actually was wow that is a super fascinating character and we should write all the fanfiction about it?”